EMDR therapy session using a bilateral stimulation light bar in a counselling office

EMDR Therapy in Toronto & Thornhill for Trauma, PTSD & Anxiety

If past experiences are holding you back, whether it’s trauma, PTSD, anxiety, or memories that won’t let go, EMDR therapy offers a structured, evidence-based path forward.

Rafati Counselling Services provides EMDR therapy in Thornhill for individuals across Toronto, Thornhill, Vaughan, Richmond Hill, and North York. Pantea Rafati, Registered Psychotherapist (RP, MACP), delivers this specialized therapy using a structured, evidence-based approach.

EMDR is not talk therapy. It works differently, using a structured, therapist-guided process rather than requiring you to talk through every detail of what happened.

What Is EMDR Therapy?

EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. It is an evidence-based psychotherapy approach originally developed to treat trauma and PTSD, and now widely used for anxiety, phobias, depression, OCD, and a range of other conditions.

Unlike traditional talk therapy, EMDR does not require you to describe your trauma in detail or relive painful experiences verbally. Instead, it works by engaging your brain’s natural ability to process and store memories, a process that becomes disrupted after distressing or traumatic events.

During an EMDR session, your therapist guides you to briefly focus on a difficult memory while simultaneously engaging in bilateral stimulation, typically guided eye movements, but sometimes tapping or auditory tones.

This dual attention process helps the brain reprocess the stored memory, reducing its emotional charge so it no longer triggers the same level of distress.

The goal of EMDR is not to erase memories. It is to change how those memories are stored so  when you think about what happened, you can do so without being overwhelmed by it.

EMDR therapy is recognized by the World Health Organization (WHO) and the American Psychological Association (APA) as an effective treatment for PTSD and trauma.

Learn how EMDR can also help with depression.

Who Can Benefit from EMDR?

EMDR may be appropriate for individuals who have experienced:

  • Childhood trauma or abuse
  • Sexual or physical assault
  • Car accidents or medical trauma
  • Panic attacks or anxiety disorders
  • Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Grief and loss
  • Relationship trauma and betrayal
  • Depression linked to past experiences
  • Phobias or irrational fears
  • Repetitive negative thoughts and self-beliefs

Not sure if EMDR is the right fit for you? Your therapist can help you find out.

emdr therapy session at rafati counselling services in toronto (thornhill), ontario

If you feel stuck in the past or triggered by memories that still feel fresh, it may be worth exploring whether EMDR is a good fit for you.

Meet Your Therapist: Pantea Rafati, MACP, RP, EMDR Therapist

Pantea Rafati, registered psychotherpist, EMDR Therapist, EFT Couples Therapist

Pantea Rafati is a Toronto-based Registered Psychotherapist with a Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology. She is a member of the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO), an active member of EMDR Canada, and a member of the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association (CCPA).

Pantea brings warmth, safety, and professionalism to every session. With specialized EMDR training that meets EMDR Canada standards, she works with clients to:

  • Process and reframe traumatic experiences

  • Reduce emotional intensity and distress

  • Build resilience and self-regulation

  • Reclaim a sense of personal safety and inner peace

How Does EMDR Therapy Work?

EMDR is an 8-phase process that helps you reprocess memories that are “stuck” or maladaptively stored in the brain:

1. History Taking & Treatment Planning

Understanding your story, goals, and identifying target memories.

2. Preparation

Explaining the EMDR process, building safety and comfort, and teaching grounding techniques.

3. Assessment

Activating the traumatic memory and identifying negative beliefs and physical sensations.

4. Desensitization

Using bilateral stimulation to process the memory and reduce emotional charge.

5. Installation

Replacing the negative belief with a positive, adaptive belief.

6. Body Scan

Checking for residual physical tension linked to the memory.

7. Closure

Ensuring emotional stability before ending the session.

8. Reevaluation

Assessing progress and identifying new targets in future sessions.

EMDR Therapy Helps With:

  • Trauma: Abuse, neglect, accidents, or violence
  • PTSD: Flashbacks, nightmares, hypervigilance
  • Anxiety: Panic attacks, intrusive thoughts, phobias
  • Low Self-Esteem: Internalized negative beliefs
  • Phobias: Fear of flying, public speaking, dogs, heights
  • Medical Trauma: Painful procedures or diagnoses
  • Relationship Trauma and Betrayal: Trust violations, infidelity, emotional abuse
  • Depression: Linked to unresolved grief, loss, or past negative experiences

Ready to start feeling like yourself again?

EMDR Therapy session

EMDR is supported by over 30 years of research and is recommended by major mental health organizations, including the American Psychological Association and the World Health Organization.

What Makes EMDR Unique?

What Makes EMDR Unique?

Unlike traditional therapy, which often requires detailed discussion of traumatic events, EMDR offers a structured approach that doesn’t require revisiting every painful memory in detail. See how EMDR compares to CBT for trauma recovery.

EMDR for Anxiety and Phobias

Anxiety is often linked to unprocessed experiences. EMDR works to address the underlying causes of anxiety by:

  • Targeting fear-based memories

  • Reprocessing distress into manageable thoughts

  • Rewiring the body’s response to triggers

Some clients notice a reduction in anxiety and panic as therapy progresses, though the pace and extent of change varies by individual.

EMDR Therapy for PTSD

PTSD can result from a single event or prolonged exposure to distress. EMDR helps people:

  • Desensitize disturbing memories

  • Stop the cycle of re-living the trauma

  • Reduce anxiety, nightmares, and physical symptoms

  • Reconnect with a sense of safety and control

EMDR can help you respond to present-day situations with less influence from past experiences.

Common EMDR Session Experiences

EMDR sessions can feel emotionally intense at times, though many people find the process relieving as it unfolds. Sessions may involve:

  • A shift from feeling “stuck” to feeling more in control
  • Unexpected insights or memories surfacing
  • A sense of emotional release as the session progresses

Every person’s process is different. Pantea paces each session according to your readiness.

Why Choose Rafati Counselling Services for EMDR?

Pantea Rafati is a Registered Psychotherapist (CRPO) and active EMDR Canada member with specialized EMDR clinical practice. Her approach is trauma-informed and paced to your readiness. The practice is located in Thornhill and serves clients from across the GTA who are looking for a therapist who specializes in EMDR rather than offering it as a side service.

Areas We Serve

Rafati Counselling Services provides EMDR therapy for clients in Thornhill and nearby communities, including Toronto , North York, Vaughan, Richmond Hill, and Markham as well as other surrounding areas in the north GTA. If you are looking for EMDR therapy in one of these areas, you can learn more about our location-specific pages.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I have to talk about my trauma in detail during EMDR?
No. EMDR does not require you to verbally share all the details of your trauma. The focus is on internal processing guided by your therapist. This is one reason many people find EMDR less overwhelming than traditional talk therapy.
Many clients notice progress within 6 to 12 sessions. Treatment length varies based on the complexity of your trauma and your unique history. Pantea will give you an honest assessment early in the process so you know what to expect.

Many extended health benefit plans in Ontario cover sessions with a Registered Psychotherapist. Since Pantea Rafati is a Registered Psychotherapist in good standing with the CRPO, her sessions may be eligible under plans that include RP services. Check your specific plan for coverage limits and eligibility.

Session fees are discussed during your free 15-minute phone consultation. Call (647) 947-6242 to ask about current rates before committing to anything.
No. Rafati Counselling Services offers in-person EMDR therapy only, at the Thornhill office. In-person sessions provide the contained and supported environment that EMDR therapy works best in.

Take the Next Step with EMDR

If EMDR feels like it could be the right next step, Rafati Counselling Services is here to help you find out.

Contact Rafati Counselling Services today to arrange your EMDR consultation.